Nancy Perpall

“I have a term for an unhappy marriage. It‘s malnourished.”

Nancy Perpall is a former critical care nurse and family lawyer. After taking apart marriages for over 30 years she is sharing what she learned representing all genders, races, religions, and nationalities in an effort to keep them together.

Her recently published book, The Malnourished Marriage: 5 Essential Emotional Nutrients For A Healthy Relationship, uses food as a metaphor to demonstrate what a relationship needs to thrive: Communication is compared to water, Sex is compared to protein, Laughter and Play are compared to carbohydrate, Compromise is compared to healthy fats, and Trust is compared to a multivitamin.

Her novel, Around Which All Things Bend. Addresses how far a person will bend to get love, to give it and how too much bending will break it. Nancy lives with her husband, Dr. David Mulligan, in Lakewood Ranch, Florida.

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Featured Book

The Malnourished Marriage: 5 Essential Emotional Nutrients For A Healthy Relationship

Paperback – August 22, 2025

If your relationship is not satisfying your needs and you think the problem is that you’re with the wrong person – think again. It’s not changing a partner that will fulfill your needs, it’s changing your mindset about the relationship.

Did you know that your relationship itself has needs? Just as your body requires specific types of food to be healthy, The Malnourished Marriage: 5 Essential Emotion Nutrients for A Healthy Relationship uses food as a metaphor to reveal the emotional categories every relationship needs to be healthy.

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Around Which All Things Bend

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Jack Canfield

Author of Chicken Soup for the Soul

I think the book is fabulous. It’s a good read, and there’s a lot of valuable information in it, and I encourage people to read it.

Alex Whitgate’s life is already mapped out before he’s born as the heir to a sprawling Montana ranch. His future is determined—what he will do, where he will attend college, and which branch of the military he will serve in.

After returning from Afghanistan, his widowed mother suggests it’s time for him to marry and secure the family legacy. Alex reluctantly becomes engaged to a woman with whom he shares passionate chemistry. But when she makes an outrageous demand just days before their wedding, Alex breaks off the engagement.

Seeking a fresh start, Alex travels to Charleston, a city steeped in Civil War history and haunted by ghosts unwilling to leave. There, he meets Brooke Bryant, a PhD psychology student whose southern roots are as deeply embedded as Alex’s are in Montana.

As Alex and Brooke fall in love, they face challenges—both the distance between them and an ex-fiancé determined to rekindle their romance. Can their love survive, or are there certain stories that are not meant to be?

Nancy’s extensive experience as a divorce attorney and her unique perspective as a former critical care nurse have made her a sought-after guest on podcasts.

As an expert in family law, conflict resolution, and relationships, Nancy has been a featured guest on numerous podcasts. She shares her wisdom on topics like divorce, relationships, conflict resolution, and marriage dynamics.

From "Divorce and the Courts" to "Blossom Your Awesome", Nancy brings practical advice and compelling insights, often drawing from her own life experiences and her work as an author. Her upcoming book, The Malnourished Marriage: 5 Essential Emotional Nutrients for a Healthy Relationship, provides a deeper dive into how couples can overcome challenges and build stronger, healthier relationships.

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Nancy’s thought-provoking appearances continue to educate and inspire listeners, offering fresh perspectives on how to improve communication, resolve conflict, and find love. Her podcasts highlight the emotional depth and relational expertise she brought to her legal career and now to her writing.

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The Malnourished Marriage

5 Essential Emotional Nutrients For A Healthy Relationship

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Nancy Perpall is a family law attorney and former critical care nurse. Nancy saw love die in hospital rooms and courtroom and is on a mission to help it survive and thrive.

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